Adult Friend Finder is a massive adult dating community for singles, swinging couples, or anyone else who's looking for a good time.

• Tons of members.
• Great safety features.
• Well organized.
• Lots of extras.

• A little overwhelming at first.

In the world of online dating, Adult Friend Finder has to be the most recognizable name out there.  They boast the largest membership for an online dating community.  They possess 24 million members; its nearest competition only has 10 million.  With a membership total that strong I would not be doing my job if I did not question the validity of each member.  However I found that no matter what you are interested in, Adultfriendfinder.com gives you the best chance of finding that.  Lately the online adult dating communities have gotten a bad name by having fake profiles to entice its members to upgrade their memberships but that is virtually non-existent on Adult Friend Finder.    

 As an online personals service they offer different unique relationships sure to find somebody for everybody. The interest include erotic chat/email/phone fantasies, 1-on-1 sex, discreet relationship, group sex (3 or more), and finally the vague term of fun.  I happened to register under this term because I did not want to lead any unsuspecting members on.  I can honestly say that is exactly what happened to me though – I  had fun.  It was like a new addiction for me, I was consistently logging in to see my new messages and try to find out who was giving me a look.  Adult Friend Finder has quickly become my dirty little pleasure.  The thing I enjoyed about it most was the playful interactions, the message features that AFF offer definitely showed me the human side of the other online users and I felt like I was truly out hitting on and getting hit on by the opposite sex.   It makes me question my decision to register under fun. 

When I first registered with Adult Friend Finder I was taken aback by the quantity of information that is granted to its members.  After a little time just casually surfing the area, it became a simple and enjoyable interface to go back to multiple times a day.  Adultfriendfinder.com gives its users many features to explore the realm of online personals.  They offer different chat rooms, both public and private.  After spending some time in those chat rooms I came to realize very quickly women are just as perverted as guys they just do a better job of hiding it.  Adult Friend Finder even has their own school, the Sex Academy.  Members can take courses to help expand there sexual creativity and boundaries.  This feature is very useful for the member looking to get out of their comfort zone and explore new horizons.

 Adult Friend Finder also offers protections if you are looking to take your online experience into the real world.  They use a third party verification service that you can use to make sure the friend that you are talking to is who they say they are and not some John Mark Karr.  The program is ConfirmID and it is an established and trusted verification service that makes sure the person on the other end is at least the gender and age that they post online.  The other great protection ability Adult Friend Finder offers its members is privacy.  Users can have complete anonymity online, where the only way another member can find your identity is if you give it to them.

 This site has become a drug to me over the past month, and I hate it when work gets in the way of life.  So I have spent the past week weaning myself off of Adult Friend Finder, but I question how professional matchmakers still exist when a site like this is out there  and definitely recommend finding friends on AFF.com.

Member Types: Bisexual/Bi-curious, Couples (Straight/Gay/Lesbian) seeking couples, Gay, Group (3+), Lesbian, Singles seeking couples, Straight, Transexual/Transgender, Transvestite/Cross Dresser

Relationship Types: 1-On-1 Sex, BDSM/Fetish Play, Cyber Play (Chat/Email), Dating/Romance, Discreet Relationship, Erotic Phone Exchange, Friendship, Group Sex (3+), Other, Serious Relationship/Marriage, Voyeurism

Regions: Global

Communication Features: Blogs, Email, Galleries (Photo/Video), Groups, Personal/Sex Ads, Text Chat, Video Chat/Live Cams, Virtual Flirting (Wink/Smile/Tickle/etc.)

Site Features: Abuse Report, Compatibility/Profile Matching, Dating/Sex Advice, Forums, Help/Support Center, Ignore/Block Lists, Member Favorites/Hotlists/Buddy Lists